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mama shares thoughts on writing; plus tips, and experiences!
Thoughts and fears about becoming a writer.
Balancing parenting and writing can be both fulfilling and frustrating. But don't let it get to you. Whether it's fiction or non-fiction; short stories or an epic; I admire your determination to keep on writing while the baby sleeps in your arm. The combination of parent and aspiring author makes for an interesting lifestyle. It's challenging, but people balance family and writing all the time. Look at JK Rowling or Stephen King for instance. Yes, it's a struggle, but you're not alone; and if you want it bad enough, and you're good at it, you will make it happen.
I am grateful
I am grateful for my life; my blessings; husband and child; my home; my job; and my writing which I’ll pursue until I’m discovered and my passion becomes my means to a success.” I continue my daily mantra instinctively but faithfully while driving home; except my words lack the enthusiasm expected by Tony Robbins. “I’m grateful for finding my passion, although my time is restricted. My life’s full with every second consumed by one being or another seeking my attention. I’m grateful for it all until insanity kicks in.” I suck in a much needed breath and glance into my rearview, stretching my neck so I can see my toddler. He looks out the window, mesmerized by passing scenery; unconcerned with my words. A sudden gush of happiness washes through me, cleansing all remnants of sarcasm and discouragement that taint my mood.
I’ll survive the drudge of today, with its typical formation. I’ll follow yesterday’s steps; same as the day before. I’m not alone. Once home my son leans into the bottom draw of an open fridge; staring at a bag of grapes. He does this every day. I encourage him to bring them out, as I do every day; and like every day, I prepare a snack; take out the dog; clean the kitchen; change a diaper. My only interruption is to grab a scrap of paper; napkin; piece of gum wrap; anything obtainable for me to safely transfer a soon-to-be renowned phrase or idea from thought.
Finally, I’m onto my beloved chore; staring at my impending bestseller while my boy plays by my feet. His tummy’s satisfied, his mind occupied and I read prewritten words in an attempt to transform my mind into one of a novelist’s. Distraction comes soon, however, when I feel little hands grabbing at me. I try to type faster; frantic to finish a thought; what was it? It’s too late; I’m no longer a writer. I’m a mountain that must be scaled. Little grunts indicate the magnitude of his mission and it’s too endearing to ignore. I surrender to his command; drag him onto my lap, hoping he’ll be entertained by the words appearing before us. I regain my literary composure, but soon my sleek lines of literary genius are tainted by an intrusive ‘g,’ followed by a roguish ‘p.’ The meddlesome letters continue appearing, accompanied by impish giggles, and my only response is a desperate, ‘no sweetie,’ ‘don’t touch;’ while maintaining as much patience as my deteriorating mood allows. It’s too tempting for those tiny fingers, however, and again I’m compelled to surrender; save my potential masterpiece and spin away from the screen, causing a squeal of delight. I lift him into the air and he looks down at me, eyes wide with the anticipation of my next move. Who knows what that will be? Even with routine comes uncertainty, but in the sparkling eyes of my child is a promise of something extraordinary; and for that I am always grateful.
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